Let me start by saying that her parents aren’t allowing her to go out with me. We are both 17, turning 18 in April and in May. They were a little unsure about me at first but our friendship has grown. There was a point in time where it seemed like we would never be allowed to be alone, but that quickly passed. They did mind at first if I took her home and no one else was in the car but they’re okay with that now.
But, now there is a problem. I gave her a hickey on her neck on New Years Eve. She was at the store with her dad this morning & he did not notice until then. From what I hear from her best friend (who was and is still with her), her dad was pissed but he seems alright now. I am worried more about her mom.
So what should I do? Are they more mad about us kissing? Or are they more mad about not knowing what we do when they are not around? Possibly both, but if we reassure them that we will not have sex, do you think things will get better & they will trust us when we’re alone?
Don’t give me shit about hickeys being immature and tacky. I know some people think that way, but get over it and help me with my problem.
Well I planned on talking to her parents about the hickey but they believed that it was just a burn from her straightener. I talked to them about dating her and they are fine with it. Everything worked out and I won’t delete this question because maybe someone going through a similar situation needs these answers. Thanks everyone.