She stated that his actions over the weekend promted her to file for divorce what was it???

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My friend is going through a divorce. Her and her husband have been having trouble for years, and she has finally told him it is over. She is already seeing someone else. The girls have seen her with him, not in a sexual or romantic way or anything, but he was a family friend and I think they wonder why he is spending so much time with their mommy. Their dad knows about him, and may have mentioned something to them. He is very hateful. Today the girls saw him with her and I and one of them seemed upset. She did not say this was the reason, but I suspect it is. Has anyone gone through a similar situation? Can you tell me what I can tell the girls, or what I can have my friend tell the girls? Should she even say anything? They are pre teens. They love their dad and mom both, and I am scared this is going to ruin their relationship. I wish she would never have let them see her with him, but it is too late.

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i know someone who is getting a divorce. And she is currently pregnant by her boyfriend. could that jepordize her custody with her divorce?

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We have been legally separated for almost 10 months now. We have an 8 and 9 years old. My ex was emotionally abusive to me. He was not much of an interactive father but he was good to the kids. We have a parenting plan in place but he uses that time to play games with me on scheduling and not picking kids up on time or being late at drop off. He also uses that time to leave me multiple voice mails about the past (venting) also saying bad things to me about me. He sends me pics of girls he is dating, etc… I don’t care about any of that. I just want him to stick with the schedule with the kids and leave me out of it. He says he can’t be a father unless he has contact with me. We go around and around about this. I end up blocking his phone, it is very peaceful. Then he want to start seeing kids again, I unblock his phone to communicate about kids, and the abuse starts again through voice mail and text. I block his phone and we keep doing this over and over again. He wants to go to my son’s b-day party and I told him maybe. Then the pick up and drop off went soar again this weekend. So I told him no, I don’t feel comfortable with you there. Now he is AGAIN threatening to walk out of the kid’s lives. He does have my son on Wed, which is his actually b-day. He can do something fun with kids instead of him always wanting to be in my plans, because he doesn’t know how to be a dad. He did it through me for 9 years.

My question is: My son wants dad to go to b-day, but I struggle because I don’t want to take a chance of him doing or saying something to upset me in front of family and friends. Should I take the chance for him to be there for my son?

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I am going through a REALLY bad divorce. My wife has taken advantage of my love for her and the children. I have signed every paper, and belived her words of "trust me". Then I found out she was having an affair, the true reason for the divorce. Since then she has kept my children from me and has used them as wepons. He Mother and Step-father have encouraged and supported her actions, and told me several times they will keep th kids away from me. I have always been the most loving father a father can be. I have treated my kids the way my father did not treat me. Now I have nothing and am alone. She filed a temp restraining order based on lies & now I have no contact with my kids untill the court date and maby not after that if the judge grants the order. Everyone is telling me to trust God and pray that he is breaking me and I need to wait and that God will fix or restore eveything.

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if a couple is spitting up and the wife is leaving the home where the father is staying to take care of a special needs minor can the wife also take the stove,fridge,washer and dryer with her just because she helped purchase it.btw we only have one car and she insists on taking it as well leaving us with no transportation
And yes i plan to fight her tooth and nail for the welfare of my son who is everything to me.

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i am recently going to be divorced which i am real happy about wont bad mouth my ex but…we have three small boys together ,he was incarcerated for domestic violence and served a year,he was recently released june 27,06 and has made no attempt to contact the boys and they know he is out .what do i say to them when they ask why?????

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Sticky situation but if there is a protection order in effect against the father, is he still obligated to pay child support? or is he exempt while the protection order is in effect?

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Can someone give me a good psychological insight into this?

If someone is from divorced family, how would he/she view marriage and romance later in life?

Would the parental divorce cause him/her to react to love in a negative light?
(PS: excessive shyness, maybe?)

PS: Descriptive answer and insight is much appreciated (‘coz I really need the info). Thanks in advance.

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Looking back,are you glad you did it and how hard was it financially to get started again?

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