My child has not seen her dad in seven months even though he lives less then ten minutes from our house and drives by our house every day to drop his other child at day care. He told me he does not care about the child and wants nothing to do with her, which is fine by me because I don’t want him to take his anger over my not wanting to be with him any more on her.
He has in essence turned his back on our child ever since he got married and it is been like pulling teeth to get him to do something for the child. It either turns into a battle where I am being accused of every despicable thing in the book through emails or calling my friends and family to spread lies and malicious gossips about me.
I have managed to ignore him and moved on with my life and i am quit happy in a new relationship. I have child support in place, so we are ( me and my child) ok. Well yesterday, he showed up at my child camp and demanding to see her. He was turned away because his name is not on the authorized list(child has been attending camp for three years now both full time and part time during school year). He proceeded to tell the camp director that I was preventing him from seen his child and treating to call the police. I work for this people, so I was notified in lieu of them calling the police to have him remove because he was making a disturbance. He sent me another nasty email demanding that I tell them to give him access to our child, I told him NO, now he is treating me with court proceedings.
I know I should ask him why he wants to see her now, but I am not. I am tired of the constant accusation that comes with talking to him. I am left drained after dealing with him. He also told the camp director a lot of the personal things that have been going on with us. I feel this was uncalled for. Why is this man so angry at me to want to distroy me by any means necessary including hurting our child? Given that he knows that I now work for these people, why did he really show up there?
We were together for 14 years, he cheated on me repeatly. I refused to take him back so he married the last person woman he cheated on me with. He told me I was not wife material and hid the fact that he was married to me for four months while begging me to take him back. He almost killed me because i got an infection from him and I have Lupus. Is that what you mean?
I offered to give up the child support if he gives me legal and physical custody of the child, he refused. He also claimed that our child is not his, yet he wont do the DNA test even after I paid to have it done, he did not show up. prior to him visiting the child at the centre, i was getting a lot a calls from my land line that I had to have the police involved and also have the calls traced by the phone company. On occasion, the person on the other line would not say anything even hands up once my voice was heard. I have stopped all contact with him and I think that is what is killing him, he no longer has control and the friend that was reporting to him is no longer in my life.
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