im an A* student, & i have been predicted 8 A*’s in my gcse’s which i will be sitting in may this year. i work hard at school and try to achieve to make them happy. yet, theyre never satisfied. theyre constantly engrossed in my brothers achievements and i never get so much as a well done. I also try to help around the house, and im always offering to do odd jobs just to make them appreciate me a bit more, but it seems the more i do, the more further they get from me. im scared that in a few years time, i will lose contact with my brother, mum & dad if we carry on like this ..please don’t tell me to discuss it with them, because it isn’t that easy, it’s just something i can’t do .
But all isn’t bad, i have some amazing friends who try and help me lots. Im very thankful to them all for being there, but none of them actually understand as they go home to such loving families. please help

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My parents keep saying i am pushing them away but i am just giving them space and i don’tt want them to blow off whatever anger they have on me. Like my dad, he wasn’t working for 5 years and never involved with anything i did for the school , he suddenly starts to say i am an idiot ,I was 11 and just started high school and my mother and I had to deal with this. My mother acts like a servant to him and pisses me off. He also has issues with his parents death, i dont know if he resolved them. Now after the five years, he suddenly wants to be a good parent and i kind off keep him at a distance. Because i believe that people dont change and if you know what you are doing is wrong why do it in the first place. Please someone tell me if i am wrong or right to keep him at a distance

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I’m half Cuban on my dad’s side and I want to get more in touch with that half of my Heritage. I want to learn a how to tango, rumba, habanera, or mambo. Is there anywhere in Wisconsin I could learn any of these? How difficult would it be? Is 13 to old to start learning? Thanx for any help you have!

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I believe the mom has her things to do about raising a child and the dad has his things. It is hard to raise a child from a single parent or gay parents.

I find the dad has to be tough on the child, set the rules, punish the wrongdoings

The mom needs to provide tender loving care and make the child feel loved.

Though both parents have to do that, one parent is more responsible for it than the other. What do you think?

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My Dad recently started complaining that he has trouble sleeping at night and wants to start taking a sleeping aid. I want to tell him that they are addictive and bad for you and that it is better to smoke a bowl before bed to fix insomnia but I know he’ll just start drilling me for doing drugs and what not. Its had to see people suffer with problems that are easily cured with a little marijuana instead of high priced drugs whose side-effects are often worse than the problem they solve.

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I have a friend who is 21 and has a 2 year old. She lives with her parents and only works when her dad needs help photograghing weddings, which is not often. She just stays out all the time and wastes money. and says that she wants to have her oqn home but wont do anything to change it. Then when people ask her about her kid she tells them that she is supporting her daughter all on her own and that its not that hard. But she is lying! The baby’s dad take the little girl everyother weekend or so and pays a rather large amount in child support. I am friends with both parents, so I hear both sides. What is your opinion about this whole thing. Do you think that if a mom is recieving child support and the dad is an active parent in the childs life, that she should be allowed to say that she is raising a child on her own. It just annoys me really.
The other thing is that he wants more time with his daughter but my friend is a bit selfish about her daughter. The dad has a girlfriend but my friend can’t stand it when the girlfriend is around her baby. what is her deal???

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ok so my friends and i are going to cedar point next summer, we will all be 16 by then (and i will be going on 17 i am a lil older than the others), so we will all have licences, the friend who offered me said his dad will let him use his truck (a 1990ish chevy siverado 3500 diesel 1-ton) with a crew cab so there will be enough seabelts so nobody will ride in the bed, but i am a little worried about this, because 1- in my state you need a CDL to drive a truck that is a 1ton+

and 2- even though he is an excelllent driver i have the weirdest worry something bad will happen cause the truck has had transmission problems and has a history of stalling

what i am aiming for is convincing them to take my truck, a 2002 GMC 1500 crew cab with no bad problems

yes i shouldve probably asked this in friends but i did, and zero resuts, so i am choosing a more lively section
pedobear i thought you didnt go for anyone over 12 lol

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Truth be told my parents are assholes. I know all teens say that but they think I’m on drugs all the time, and I am frequently punished for nothing, and the one time I do smoke weed my parents find out, and now they are threatening to kick me out, and say they will force me to go to work my dad. I’ve taken so much crap from them, and I am not being over dramatic, they have really abused me emotionally and sometimes physically, I don’t know what I can do?

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I’m so tired of all of this.. The whole thing…I honestly don’t think I deserve this punishment of staying home all the time.. It’s making me gain weight & I’ve lost my tan & really I’m just so unhappy.. I have no idea what to do.. I lost all my friends.. Lara is always busy & well Missy.. My sister doesn’t trust me with her.. I get why but I think I’ve changed a lot through out my life & I think she should trust me around her, I’ve learned my lesson.. My mom is always saying that if I do something really bad that she’ll send me to brazil so I’m kind of thinking of something to do.. Hopefully not too bad but I just really need to go there.. that’s the only time I’m truly happy & that I’m not LOCKED up in my house.. I don’t feel like this is my home I feel like this is a PRISON.. I get it they’re doing this because they care about me… but locking me up doesn’t make it up.. I feel like a young girl with an unfulfilled teenage hood.. You’re only a teen once & I feel like my parents are stripping it away from me… & it’s really not even my mom but its my dad.. I guess he did so many bad things when he was younger he just goes crazy thinking we’re like him.. & we’ll do the same bad things as he did.. People have called me ungrateful, spoiled, and down right a bitch because I have parents who love me… but what is the point of being loved if you can’t feel it or experience it.. Since I never leave my house, I never meet new people which means boyfriends.. & I believe there should be a balance in parent hood… not too strict but not too liberal either.. I wish my family had that balance.. My cousin met her bf when she was 17 and now she’s 23 they’re still together.. If this stays like this for a long time.. I’m going to end up a lonely cat lady & where are my parents love going to be then? They’ll probably be dead.. No offense & as for me.. I’ll probably be lonely.. I don’t know what my future has to hold for me.. & I might be only 16 but my sister is 18, almost 19 & my parents treat her the same way they treat me.. I honestly don’t know what to do.. I neeed advice but really I just wanted someone to talk to.. Someone to express myself to…thanks I appreciate it..
So today I ask to go to the movies, 15 mins away with my 18 year old sister & he says no. I have been home for 2 almost 3 weeks straight!!! The only time I ever leave is when I go to walk my dog. I honestly don’t even know what to do anymore. I’ve tried talking to them but my father is just way too ignorant to listen. Everyone outside my family thinks he is just the BEST father figure ever but really, he’s not. This is supposed to be my home, NOT A PRISON. If he just once turned to me & said "hey HUN(which he would never just be that nice) you can’t go because we’re short on money" I DON’T KNOW, ANY EXCUSE BUT HE JUST SAYS NO WITH NO FUCKI*G EXCUSE! I ASK HIM WHY & WELL HE SAYS "JUST CAUSE" & I tried talking to him I said "dad.. I’ve been home for about 3 weeeks now.. why can’t I go? Daniella will go with me.." his answer was "I said no! thats that, & just cause you insisted you won’t go out for the next 2 weeks, and if you cry about it, you’ll be grounded for the next month" & of cour

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i think lesbos raising children is fine, but gay men? i mean what wud the child think when it walks in on the "father" banging the other "dad" and what wud happen when the child goes to school and the rest of his class finds out abt his unique parents… and finally what wud happen to the child when the "dads" die of AIDS
i personally think the children will grow up retarded and perverted.
i wanted to know what the gay community think abt this issue

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