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I’m 18 and my mom and i have a pretty decent relationship. We’ve hit some major rocky points at one time or another but always manage to move on and deal.Recently I’ve had a curfew change which I can deal with and really don’t mind.
Im supossed to call her anytime I leave somewhere that I said I would be, so I do. Well today I was at one place all day so I didn’t call her. I told her where I was going before I left and stayed there all day. Next thing I know I get a call and Im being bitched out by her for not calling. Its like I’ve been here all day, so I didn’t call. I see her point in why I should’ve "checked in", but now because of this, she’s gonna change my curfew and probably yell at me in the morning.
QUESTION: How do I deal with a way over protective mother? I’m 18, Im a good kid and don’t get introuble. Feel free to email me if you’d like. Im really sick of dealing with this b.s. and dunno what to do. Thank you.
Btw, she doesnt listen or negotiate well. Its either her way or no way.
I dont live in a bad area either lol I seriously live in a small hicktown where nothin bad ever happens

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Ok so a year ago during August I was caught dating a guy . Who was no good . Smoked marijuana , hung out with the bad type of kids , and also went to the bad school. After that I became the talk of the family and on top of that , I got my laptop , cell , and freedom/trust taken away. Over the year I overall think I had gained back about 50 % of their trust back , and they gave me a second chance. I started high school ( gr.9) and just after Christmas vacation new semester new classes I ended up meeting a guy. Some what like the "old guy" but had a few new traits that I fell in love with. I realize that might sound tacky saying I fell in love but if your a parent reading this , us teens now a days have a different type of "falling in love". But as I was saying about th "new guy" , he smokes weed , hangs out with the bad crowd . But he is also a teddy bear on the inside , and is not like any of his friends. And so anyways we saw each other before going out for about three weeks . Then during March he ended up asking me out . I was un sure of what to say since I still had the thought of my parents in the back of my mind. But I ended up saying yes. We were together for two months until we became stupid and un safe and he commented one day on a picture of mine on facebook and my dad saw it. I told my dad though out front about him and he said that he wasn’t going to tell my mom because I came out front with him. But he told me to brake up with the "new guy" immediately. I went to school the next day and told him what happened. But being stupid as usual I said I wanted to stay with him and I did. I hid the relationship for another month and then out of no were my mom confronts me and says "who are you dating" . I was beyond shocked . I told her , and she said that it was more of a joke. So I blew it for myself. My mom and dad ended up having a family meeting with me and told me that I wasn’t grounded but I needed to break up with him. So the next day I went back to school and told him I needed to talk to him after about something really important. We ended up walking home together and I told him the story and still didn’t brake with him. So as we are walking my dad and mom come driving down the road and here I am walking with my boyfriend still . My dad tells me to get in so I do then my mom and dad are both like did you brake up with him and I’m like yes. They seemed to believe only half of it . And me and Justin is his name stayed together for about a week after that and ended up braking up outta our own choices. So to sum the whole thing up. I never got grounded. But I lost my parents trust. And to this day my mom and dad both bring it up. Like it’s a huge grudge put against me. (They are NOT religions by the way). I am 14 and going into grade 10 now. And I honestly feel scared now to ask my parents to go places because I feel as though they will say "No" just because of my stupid mistake. Like as a teen we make a fair share of mistakes haven’t we all. It’s part of growing up. And from my point of few , I feel as though my parents have taught me everything I need to know. And that it’s my time to start to venture out and try new thing’s. Now before I finish my elaborate story. I have to say I have been boy crazy since I was about 8 or 9 . So I don’t know if that has something to do with my constant need to lie to my parents about boys. I feel like I keeping going on but I keep thinking of last minute thing’s. Could it be genetics that I look for a guy like my dad. He started smoking partying drinking etc at age 16 . And I noticed over the past few years I look for guys like him. Thanks for the answers by the way.

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me and my girlfriend have had a really healthy relationship (been dating over a year) and we care alot about eachother. this year we’re going to college together. her parents are excessively religious and tell her stuff like shes a demon and going to hell for spending too much time on the computer. the parents also control internet usage for her 2 older brother and sister and 2 younger sisters.

her parents are very repressed and the subject of sex is very bad for them. they do everything they can to make sure there children do not know what sex is. me and my girlfriend have had sex (we use protection AND SHE IS NOT PREGNANT) and her parents found out a month ago, after searching her computer for no reason without her permission. the father then preceeded to save all of her online conversations, internet searches and all passwords onto a word document, confiscated her cellphone and interrogated her for everything.

at first her father didnt tell her mother for a few days. the punishment was brutal already, they decided to take away her license, internet and cellphone (she pays for her own phone). she is also not allowed to leave the house or be home alone under any circumstances. they also are being shady about college and might not let her go.

when the mother found out, she didnt talk to her for an entire day and then had a huge shouting arguement at her. the parents wanted to take her to a therapist but they didnt like any of them because they werent "moral" which means they want someone to yell at her for having sex. her mother told her if she wanted to continue to live in this house, shes gonna have to find herself spiritually and morally. my girlfriend had been crying for the entire week and then i didnt hear from her for a week and a half.

as of now its been a month. my girlfriend gets 15minutes of internet each night if shes good. she tells me her parents arent getting over this and take her good behavior as her just trying to get on there good side so she can go back to what she was doing before. shes been trying her hardest to prove to them that they can trust her but they just dont care. she has to sign a contract with them promising that she wont go anywhere but work when she has to go to work. she is 18 years old and is imprisoned in her house. her older brother has sex but the parents dont know. the oldest sister has been repressed into not having a social life and has never had a boyfriend, she turns 23 in august.

my girlfriend is in a really bad depression. she isnt religious like her parents, shes more of a realist. but her parents are very fundamentalist to the point where they isolate there children from outside media and culture. if my girlfriend wanted a phone or license, they would push her away by saying "why? so you can be like everyone else?" that’s there response to everything.

she cant have a clear coherent conversation with her parents. they wont get over what happened. my girlfriend have never felt more alone, isolated or hated.

i dont know what parent would do this to their child but im seriously concerned for her. does anyone have any advice for her that i can pass on?

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Now that my sons girlfriend is living at our house, any suggestions on living conditions and raising her.?
i appreciate all your previous help, it has been a really rough few days. We decided not to adopt her, so if the relationship doesn’t work or something goes wrong a foster parent can raise. we talked to social services and they said that we can raise her under our roof.

any advice on how living conditions should be set and how i should raise her, my son is 15 and so is the girlfriend. they have been in a relationship since they were 9. my son suggested she sleep in his room in his bed, and he said he would leave the door open and have the nanny cam in the room. should i allow her to sleep in his room with those conditions. any suggestions on living conditions, there are three bedrooms, me and my husbands, my daughters, and my sons. Im more for letting her sleep in my daughters room, and my daughter loves the idea. but i dint want to depress my son and his girlfriend even more.

Should i just let my son sleep with his girlfriend in the living room with my son on the floor and the girl on the cough, im sorry that this just seems stupid its just that my son and daughter have slept together like on vacations and sleep overs. this is a very stressful problem, i mean my son wont even go to school, because he wants to comfort his girlfriend and she highly appreciates. other advice on parenting this awakward family would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

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OK,I will try to make this LONG story short

When I was 18/19 I dated a guy who was 23/24 we were together as boyfriend girlfriend. When I met him he had a 1 yr old baby anyways after about a year of dating each other. He broke it off with me to go back with the child’s mother (by this time the child was around 2 years old) anyways he went back to her moved in with her and they did their whole family thing.

Him and I still maintained a friendship for about the first year of them getting back together which lead to an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR we we’re both VERY MUCH IN LOVE with each other (him and I have NEVER actually had Sex not even when we were dating each other because i was still a virgin back than) Well this Emotional Affair lead to many problems in his current relationship with his child mothers that eventually we both dissolved the friendship between us. (She hates me with a passion)

Anyways Fast FORWARD 4 years have gone by and we have not had any contact with another in 4 years! We have recently reunited with one another I’m now 25 and he is 28 years old and he is no longer with the child mother
(I don’t know if it important to add this info but they we’re never actually married and their outcome of being together was more than likely due to the teen pregnancy she was 17 I believe when she had the baby which is now 7 years old)

I guess my question is what should I expect from us reuniting should I hold any resentment towrds him for basically dumping me back in the day? Or should I let by gones be by gones and see where this goes?

I have recieved mixed advice from people in my inner circle some frown down upon him for dumping me to go back to the child’s mother other say that he did the "right" thing by trying to provide a family unit for his child and putting aside his wants?

What is your take on this I need advice from mature people who have been through similar experinces?

I have to add that he is a great person of character (even with my dating around for 4 years I have yet to meet a guy of his character)

my question really is NOT about dating him because he has a child My question is more about should I give him a second chance???????????

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OK,I will try to make this LONG story short

When I was 18/19 I dated a guy who was 23/24 we were together as boyfriend girlfriend. When I met him he had a 1 yr old baby anyways after about a year of dating each other. He broke it off with me to go back with the child’s mother (by this time the child was around 2 years old) anyways he went back to her moved in with her and they did their whole family thing.

Him and I still maintained a friendship for about the first year of them getting back together which lead to an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR we we’re both VERY MUCH IN LOVE with each other (him and I have NEVER actually had Sex not even when we were dating each other because i was still a virgin back than) Well this Emotional Affair lead to many problems in his current relationship with his child mothers that eventually we both dissolved the friendship between us. (She hates me with a passion)

Anyways Fast FORWARD 4 years have gone by and we have not had any contact with another in 4 years! We have recently reunited with one another I’m now 25 and he is 28 years old and he is no longer with the child mother
(I don’t know if it important to add this info but they we’re never actually married and their outcome of being together was more than likely due to the teen pregnancy she was 17 I believe when she had the baby which is now 7 years old)

I guess my question is what should I expect from us reuniting should I hold any resentment towrds him for basically dumping me back in the day? Or should I let by gones be by gones and see where this goes?

I have recieved mixed advice from people in my inner circle some frown down upon him for dumping me to go back to the child’s mother other say that he did the "right" thing by trying to provide a family unit for his child and putting aside his wants?

What is your take on this I need advice from mature people who have been through similar experinces?

I have to add that he is a great person of character (even with my dating around for 4 years I have yet to meet a guy of his character)

my question really is NOT about dating him because he has a child My question is more about should I give him a second chance???????????

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I need help sorting out my parents relationship with me and my wife.?
My mother fell out with my wifes parents a long time ago over a situation where she was well out of order. but she expected me to chose between her or my wife. I stood by my wife and so she never came to our wedding and very rarely contacts us or aknowledges our baby at any time other than Christmas.
My father and step mum have also fallen out with us over a whole load of petty things that they have been stewing over for ages. We forgot a birthday, had to ask them to look after our dog at very short notice when my wifes nan fell ill. (we were staying in a hotel and asked if they would mind looking after our dog an extra day so we could stay an extra day at the hotel but they said no) we bought some stuff off them and then my wife found out that they had made a small profit on it, they only live 5 miles away from us but rarely pop over to see us or our new baby which we could have done with after my wife gave birth as she had a very hard labour, they felt that her parents were there too much and they dont like them. All petty stuff really. Anyway, my dad would visit on the odd occasion and just go on about how my mum left him 5 years ago for another man and that my brother hates me for what happened to my mother.
My wife basicly had had enough of the grief we were getting and had been getting eversince we got engaged…my dad thought we got engaged when we did because he was away and it meant my mum could come and celebrate with us (she basicly invited herself), I got an award at work where my parents could come to the ceremony, my dad wouldnt come if my mum was coming, my dad and step mum felt we got married too early and had a baby too early, my mum refused to come to our wedding after the argument with my wifes parents and I’d stood by my wife, my brother and I own a house together and he kept taking the house account overdrawn and I had to keep bailing him out and he hasnt ever aknowledged our baby or seen him because of the situation with my mother. My dad wont go and see my brother because he wants to be invited and wont just turn up. My brothers been driven to a breakdown because of the stress with our family and he’s given up his job.
My wife hates my family because of all this **** and so one evening when my dad and step mum came over, there was an awkward atmosphere and the next day I got a phone call at work from my step mum wanting to know what was up. I just played it down at first but then she emailed my wife and bollocked her so my wife replied then she got another email and now my wife wont entertain visiting my dad and step mum or letting our little boy anywhere near my step mum. She gets so upset if I say I’m going to as when ever I do i have to just sit there and listen to how bad we’ve been, how it’s all our fault, that my wife is behaving like my mother, that we’ve caused so much upset and when I get home I just feel like I want to run away from everyone and never come back and I’m bloody 32 years old! We havent seen my dad since November and while I really want to see him because he is my dad, because of how upset my wife gets and the fact that I dont want to sit there and listen to them slagging me and my wife off, I havent. Therefore I keep getting emails about how I need to get my priorities sorted and stand up to my wife and go round and see them. An email which my wife read before I knew about it as she was checking my emails for me while i was away. Now she feels even stronger hate towards my step mum for sending it. This is so complicated and long!!! I know it’s my responsibility to stand by my wife and I have and will but God it’s being made so hard.

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I feel guilty about not seeing them and get emails from them saying how much I’ve hurt them and that they wont contact us again. I want to see them but I know that when I go over, I will just get loads of crap and be left feeling that I dont want to go over again. I’m not sure what to say to them to try to sort this out while not upsetting my wife.

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Funny how you keep saying that you should stand by your wife, but has it occurred to you that your wife should stand by you as well?

From the looks of it, many small petty things have got in the way of a possibly amiable relationship. Now the big step is for you, the bridge, to do some linking. Have a chat with your wife and let her know how you value your father and wish you spend time with him. Assure her that you’ll have a talk to your father and step-mother as well, so that she won’t feel it’s just one-sided.

Of course, the next step is to talk to your father and step-mother. Let them know how trapped in the middle you are and you’re seeking their bigheartedness to let go of past misunderstandings and grudges and start anew with your wife. Your step-mother should stop emailing to your wife. Let YOU be the liaison until she can allow herself to communicate

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Mom and Dad met in college. Both dropped out. They both cheated. Dad has new girlfriend. Mom didn’t like that. Mom tried to keep family together in controversial manner. Dad reacted violently. Mom and Dad are refusing to call one another and haven’t talked since June 08. Dad feels Mom always made sure he saw kids and should continue (phoning, visiting). Not sure what Mom feels but, suspects she may just want a phone call with some explanation and some show of intimacy. Dad not willing to call Mom because he feels she makes it too much about her – - but willing to go to their house and pick them up for weekend. Mom and kids live with grandma. Dad lives with new girlfriend. Girlfriend is responsible, has okay relationship with Mom and kids, and has been a party to Mom and kids staying overnight in the past. Girlfriend now only willing to have kids overnight (tired of the drama). Dad willing to take children on outings as well but, will not go alone (fear of incarceration) and will not go with Mom (tired of drama and what he considers to be selfishness).

Looking for advice for all three parties. Not looking for angry responses. There are children and adults suffering here. All parties are in need of insight from caring individuals.
Unmarried couple, Dad unable to use legal system, female children

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Long story shortened best as I can: I have a daughter in California who lives with her Grandmother. Until about 18 months ago I had no idea she even existed. But now that I know I am trying to step up the way a man should.

Please forgive me for making this sound so impersonal. I am trying save feelings by not using any names.

While I was dating the mother she had explained to me that her mother had never let her do things around the house, and refused to teach her how to do these things. Basically handicapping her and insuring that the daughter would be dependent on her for a very long time.

Well when the daughter finally rebelled and decided that she was old enough to make her own decisions, Mom kicked her out. Leaving her a social cripple. Well the girl had no skills and was fully female in design. Before she met me had already made 2 babies.

Here’s the kicker!! Since she had no parenting skills, and no means to support the childred, Her mother raised the grandchildren. And so the cycle continues. My ex-girlfriend, the Mother of these children, had no control over this situation, and could not get the children back.

This is so much more that simply being an over-protective parent. It’s as if this woman feels like if her children, or grand children never grow up, then she will never grow old.

Now she has MY daughter and has has her for 18+ years and is refusing to let her mature past the emotional age of 12 or 13.

I WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAUGHTER!!! But this Witch has her deadlocked and under her control!

Sad part of it is, Now this control freak has my own mother thinking that this is the right thing to do!
Important to note I know that I could have done something a few years ago but now the girl is 19 years old and I having trouble finding someone who will understand that while she is an adult, and can make her own decisions, she is trapped the emotionally.

I know that there is a technical name for this syndrome. It is not Munchausens by proxy, but there has to be a name for this. If I can nail that down, I may be able to find a group that deals with this condition specifically.

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